Gender

So, as a white, American, male, I might have no business opening my mouth here but I have something to say and want to share it with anyone who wants to hear it.

As I am ageless, and was not born, it might make no sense for me to say the following but it is the best way to preface what I am going to ramble about: Growing up my mother used to say to my sisters that if they wanted to find a man they needed to act more like girls... This phrase has always pissed me off, for many reasons...

Reason one, I have been attracted to tomboys for a long time, and the few time that I meet a girl that is a tomboy in here adulthood she is attracted to other women. I have no problems with that, except that I am not in the running. I am not saying that phrases like that lead to people being attracted to persons of the same gender, but I am also not saying that they don't.

I once spent a summer pissing off two of my homosexual friends by insisting that homosexuality is a fetish. When I brought this up to another heterosexual friend he point out that it totally is... Though not just homosexuality, heterosexuality, bisexuality.... any type of sexuality really. I have a fetish for women, which is more acceptable, publicly (I assume, because this fetish leads to more people) it is not any more, or less, relevant.

The problem is, my fetish for women pertains more to women who identify as men, and are still attracted to men... Mostly because I am a man. I feel that anyone who has anything to say about who and what your are attracted to has no right to comment, though if your wants/wishes involve hurting unwilling participants (Or minors) then you should not act on those...

I don't mean to judge but hurting people that don't want to be hurt, and molesting (physically/mentally) beings who are not old enough to handle a situation, then I do feel that you are doing the human race a disservice. I can not judge, and try though I might to not I still judge in those situations.

"I wake up every evening with a big smile on my face, and it never feels out of place. And you're still probably working at a nine to five pace, I wonder how bad that tastes." The All-American Rejects.

Be who you are going to be, be attracted to who you are attracted, know that you are human and we are all flawed.
King Badger